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Life Means Suffering – and that’s okay

December 8th, 2009 at Tue, 8th, 2009 at 1:48 pm by mmarchand

As we watch politics begin (and continue) at the local, state and federal level, I am reminded that “Life means Suffering” - the first of the four noble truths of Buddhism.

This truth is often perceived as negative. Such is not the case. This truth is just what life means to us – collectively and individually – as we go about making decisions on our way. Decisions can be hard.  It is when you recognize you must ”suffer” on some level to achieve happiness that you begin to become more aware of your purpose. And in today’s world the decisions we face – particularly the political decisions - are filled with difficulties that will mean suffering.

So why do we suffer? We suffer because our lives, our society and our world are all imperfect. Along with physical maladies, we also spend each day processing mental anguish, fear, disappointment, frustration, sadness, anger and much more. These mental “afflictions” often take the greatest toll on our happiness. And happiness is often fleeting.  It appears for indeterminate periods of time before it leaves us again.  This is hard on us because we want so much to be happy and realize the best possible outcome all the time.

Today we are in the midst of a lot of ”suffering’ in our politics. Between health care reform, efforts to stem unemployment, finding additional billions to fix our budgets around and for our state, and raising taxes in our own cities, we are living first-hand the difficulties of life and the hard choices that must be made. We do this with the hope that it will lead to a greater happiness. But we do suffer with the decisions we have made to realize happiness and will suffer more in the upcoming year.

In the end,  we must remember to weigh this suffering against the prospects of happiness. As happiness is fleeting, so is the difficulty of attaining it. The path to happiness is supposed to be hard. That is what makes happiness so rewarding. It is important that we embrace these difficult issues during this difficult time. For within them holds the key to the happiness that lies ahead.

mmarchand Michael Marchand has spent more than 20 years working on behalf of governments and government agencies, and Fortune 100 corporations public affairs, advocacy, policy engagement, regulatory affairs, issues positioning and public relations. Most recently he has driven efforts for Gov. Gary Locke, U.S. Department of Health & Human Svcs., Microsoft Corporation, MasterCard International, and others. He resides in Bellevue with his wife and three children.

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